So someone else planted the idea in your head that you're something else than you thought you were before? I don't mean to attack you or your friend, but that sounds sketchy to me.
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I've had doubts about my gender for the longest time, but never enough to call myself transgender. So I asked my trusted friend and confidant about the issue, and she tentatively settled upon bigender.
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Besides, she's not entirely conventional either, so trustworthiness +1.