Well, that's not really masculinity. Being masculine, to be a man, means that you should have strength of character. Be proud, stand by your beliefs and uphold the weak. Don't prey upon others. Take responsibility for your actions. Lead those who cannot lead. Do not rely on others or become dependant on them. That is my definition of what being a man is. Kids in school haven't got a clue what true masculinity is. It isn't how big your arms are or what sort of car you drive or how many guns you own. It is who you are as a person.