I am gay. I am solemnly asking for all opinions. I don't care if your against gays or homosexuality, I just really want to hear all your opinions. My entire family is against gays because they are Christian so I'm pretty much screwed in life
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There was a post down below that genuinely describes my outlook on it. Yes I'm a christian, but I'm also a realist so have two outlooks on everything (that's where these two posts will differ) I'm not a Jesus freak but I do have my beliefs that help dictate my lifestyle. In my family it homosexuality is frowned upon but regardless I have family that is gay/les/pan I however am straight guy and getting married in only six short days (nervousness is finally getting to me lol). Besides the fact that they are gay my family still loves those members unconditionally because family is family no matter their lifestyle. In the future would I let this belief effect my children? To an extent yes, I will teach my children my opinions and when they come of the age of common sense I will tell them its time for them to start making their own opinions. Will I try to keep my child from becoming homosexual? Yes, because the duty of the father is to raise his son or daughter in the light of good and just and I plan to do that exactly. My goal as a father when I become one will be how my father raised me to simply raise my child in a better home then I grew up in during my child hood and I feel this is the true way a parent should behave when raising a child. But in conclusion to my religious outlook on this; do I agree? No; do I approve? No; would I support? No; would I do anything to try to stop society from making this a norm? No, it other peoples lives they can live it out however they wish. In the bible it is summed up to be (like I said I'm not a Jesus freak but I am religious so I won't directly quote) don't hate the sinner hate the sin. Now for my realistic side, please, please, please note that I'm not trying to start any arguments or disputes with this. This is simply my worldly, human, and realistic out look on the subject of homosexuality. As much as I am religious I'm also realistic I am human and as well are the people around me everyday in this world. I see that homosexuality is pushing to become a norm and want to be accepted by society, and that's all fine and dandy, again you are just as human as I and deserve to ee th life you live without being disrupted because your entire life is wrong cause its not. It is no place for anyone to dictate how your life will be lived when you reach the age of gaining common sense what you decide is right and wrong is all you. Just realize there are things that no matter what you think they are legally wrong and could land you in some shitty situations possibly jail time. You are human you do what is right in your eyes who am I to tell you that you are wrong to change cause I don't like how you are. But now let's get to where I might infuriate people. Where is the logic in homosexuality? I have asked this to countless gays and lesbians, skirting their actual sexual pleasures, I have not received a real answer beside from what can be summed up as: 1.) Getting too close to your best friend, 2.) Not confident around the opposite sex but most comfortable with a same sex person, 3.) The people feel nothing for the opposite sex because of various reasons (drama, stereotypes, too proud to be like others and just settle etc...)and my favorite by my lesbian friend who I can't deny feels and acts more like a bro then anything says her logic is: who doesn't like a good set of knockers? Lol again people this is my realistic side and I can not disagree with the previous question. But I'm a very logical person and down to the real life and future life question. What is the point? As humans we are very slightly above animals and the fact that proves this for me is we have intellect and are able to override natural instinct with intuition. So through just the simple course of the life cycle homosexuality just kinda breaks it... You are unable to reproduce (naturally). Yes I am religious but science is real, theories are not, science is. Again this is a general outlook on my view of the subject religiously, logically, and scientifically. From my eyes it does not make sense. No I do not approve, no I will not support but nor will I be the one to try and destroy your life, just question it until I get an answer, What is the point? But let's face you, the reader, are human, you make your own choices and live you life how you wish. Be happy and live life guardian.