While I hesitate to post this here because of the huge number of 12 year old trolls who have never seen a real girl naked, I ask the more mature and experienced part of the forum for some advice. Me and my girlfriend broke up after a big fight Saturday night after prom, and we haven't really talked since. Since the reason I asked her out in the first place is she was a really cool person and an awesome funny girl who I was good friends with, I don't want to lose a person like that. So basically, I want to try and become friends again like before. I know this is gonna be awkward at first an probably a long process, but she was one of my closest friends and is really like that back. As I said, we haven't talked since it happened. We go to the same school and have classes together, but as I said I haven't talked to her yet and I have no idea if she wants to be friends or what. Any advice as to how I should approach this?
Thanks guys I've heard all I need to I appreciate the help. Don't need any more responses. I've gotten a loud no from her for now, with a maybe farther down the line.
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Trust me when I say this, it's better off this way. Move on and meet new people. You'll make more friends and everything just sorts itself out. Becoming friends with an ex is always a rather complex and difficult thing that normally doesn't work out smoothly no matter how hard you try. Sometimes it'll seem forced just because you're not willing to let her go from your life. Now everyone is different but this is what my experience tells me. I'm in my mid-twenties now if that helps to give you an idea of where I am now in life in terms of age groups