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Edited by chf4242:
3/17/2015 12:24:05 AM
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Relationship advice
While I hesitate to post this here because of the huge number of 12 year old trolls who have never seen a real girl naked, I ask the more mature and experienced part of the forum for some advice. Me and my girlfriend broke up after a big fight Saturday night after prom, and we haven't really talked since. Since the reason I asked her out in the first place is she was a really cool person and an awesome funny girl who I was good friends with, I don't want to lose a person like that. So basically, I want to try and become friends again like before. I know this is gonna be awkward at first an probably a long process, but she was one of my closest friends and is really like that back. As I said, we haven't talked since it happened. We go to the same school and have classes together, but as I said I haven't talked to her yet and I have no idea if she wants to be friends or what. Any advice as to how I should approach this?
Thanks guys I've heard all I need to I appreciate the help. Don't need any more responses. I've gotten a loud no from her for now, with a maybe farther down the line.
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It honestly depends on who started the fight, what the fight consisted of, and how pissed off she actually is. While apologizing sincerely won't get her back, it might get her to talk to you again. The problem is you can't sound so pathetic and apologetic that she sees you in a completely different way. Don't go in guns hot saying something like "I'm sorry it's all my fault I didn't deserve you you're the best thing that ever happened to me!" Blah blah blah. No. You have to show your maturity level. Just as her to talk, tell her you were in the wrong for whatever it was you were fighting about, and that you're sorry. Don't try to get her back during the apology either, if she's still fuming she probably won't consider it. Best advice is act as quickly as possible on reconnecting with her, then bide your time a bit before you start up another relationship. Don't wait too long though, she might slip through on a rebound.
