You clearly missed the point. You didn't set out to do those activities with the knowledge you'd get the red death and nothing else. Let's say we both spend 35hrs doing raids, nightfalls, weeklies, strikes, crucible. At the end of those 35hrs, the red death drops for you and I get nothing. I head over to Xur and buy it from him. Now tell me, did you deserve your red death more than me?