Marriage.....erm, surprisingly I really think it is up to whatever religion you're wanting to be married by. Although I do think that stripping the legal rights of marriage away should happen, making marriage a totally religious event - i.e a union only in the eyes of [Deity], bugger all to do with the State. Make everything else a Civil Partnership and POW! Problem solved. Shouldn't force a religion to go against its teachings, but then you can eradicate the issue of equality by making marriage matter less in a legal sense.