I'm with you, man. I play after the kids are in bed and I always pitch in with dishes or something just so she doesn't feel like I'm slacking off. I pull off about 1.5-2 hours a night a few times a week and she's cool with it; raids on Fridays. To ensure that things stay smooth, I do dishes, and try to surprise her with folded laundry. That way, she has time to read or watch something on her laptop while I play a bit.