I am doing a tonne of work for my HNC in software development and my GF is lashing out at me to (also expecting sept this year). After sitting on the computer from 9 am to about 3PM doing Use case diagrams + descriptions, CRC cards, HCI, storyboards and all the other things that go along with software development i just want to relax and play some games, She seems to think that sitting on the computer is not tiring but it really takes it out of me. Gets worse when i actually get to coding and i'm writing 100's and sometimes into the thousand lines of code that after writing i need to test and debug and recode. Then she turns that into "i never see you " what does she think is gonna happen when i get a job monday to friday 9 till 5? that she'll magically get more time with me?