Most of my friends don't tone anything down when there's a girl. This one time a jewish girl joined our party while we were making holocaust jokes and she left because of our "inappropriate statements." The jewish guy in our party didn't give a shit. A bunch of girls that have joined us in the past wanted us to tone it down and we did the first couple times but now we just don't care. Maybe i've only run into the boring nice girls but if you're on the internet joining people's parties and stuff then you should be -blam!-ing prepared! I got nothing against girl gamers but most of the ones i've run into are asshats that give way too much of a shit and expect people to be proper online.