I feel ur pain brother!!! The struggle is real!! I have the same problem, I have to wait for the wife n kids to go to bed before I can even play. I can only play on Thursday - Saturday nights from like 10pm to 2am . The other nights I can't even play to work ,so I can't stay up late on those nights to play. So I never really get to raid which sucks a lot. So with that being said any one willing to help me out on those night do the raid would b nice. But I'm getting away from ur point, yes it is hard to game when u have a wife n kids .