I will say this about my current situation: was close enough friends this past year that people thought we were dating, 8 people in 1 day asked if we were. She gave exaggerated no (as in, that obviously struck a chord- "no, um, obviously, um, I mean why would you think that?") and started dating this other guy but recently confessed -to me- she was having second thoughts about him. Cant tell if I've got a shot or am just super-friendzoned to the max. I need an objective perspective.