But I can't decide whether it's better to tell them by a letter I hand them that explains the long story I have, or if I should just say it. Has anyone else gone through this, and if so do you have any advice?
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Don't bother telling them, Just date who you want, let them find out that way. Making a big deal out of it isn't really the way to go, regardless of whether they'd be supportive or not.