I always am around the top of my leaderboard when i play iron banner (well, unless im like 5 drinks in, lol) i have a grimoire of over 2600 and all my characters are lvl 32. Im the swoardbearer against crota when i run my hunter, the leader of my own clan and i regularly help run people through raids if they need it. I love helping people. I regularly meet new friends and enjoy most i come across. What i dont appreciate is when some guy i just met joins my fire team and starts patronizing me and asking if i need to hide in the center room above the door while everyone else "takes care of crota." Really? The other day my clan and i are in the middle of iron banner and i ask everyone to ignore zone "A" on overwatch and hold C and B. (Because, duh!, lol) and this guy who joined in has the nerve to say, "so, are we letting a woman call the shots here?" I told him to run to the garage where he belongs and build me my ikea furniture. Lol. I normally wouldnt say that but come on guys, really? I am really nice until i feel attacked for no reason. We are all GAMERS. not gamer "grrls" or guys. Why can't some people just treat others with the same respect they would appreciate? I know these forums (from horrible personal experience) aren't the best place to find emotionally stable and mature individuals. I have even lashed back out at people when i know i shouldnt stoop to their level. But really, i feel as though some people just need a swift kick in the rear. Being classy is so much more attractive. Can't we all just get along?