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7/30/2015 8:19:50 PM
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An Open Letter to the Dames of Destiny: I Am Sorry.

Dear Dames of Destiny, While I do not normally watch the Destiny Bungie Bounty streams, it recently came to my attention through the My name is Byf video (which I have included in this post for anyone who happens to be curious), that your part in the Bungie Bounty was met with almost constant sexist and discriminatory remarks. Normally, I don't make threads of my own, only reserving that sort of thing for what I consider important, and this is the third thread I've made on the Bungie forums, period. As such, I feel a few things need to be said. First, to the Destiny Community: It comes as no surprise to me that there is still a hateful attitude towards women in gaming, but what [i]did[/i] come as a shock was the fact that people were willing to show that hate and discrimination so publicly, without any apparent shame for it. I realize that the Internet and Online Gaming, in and of themselves, promote anonymity, and in turn that gives people the power to say whatever it is they wish. That power is often coupled with complete irresponsibility and total unaccountability. That is no excuse, and is unacceptable. The fact that I have to type this in the first place disappoints and sickens me, but I suppose it has to be reiterated: In a video game, the gender of the player [u]does not matter.[/u] It should [u]never[/u] matter. Neither should race or place of birth. Discrimination as a whole is wrong, and should never be promoted. As such, anyone who sees what happened to the Dames of Destiny, and approves? You are not a part of [i]my[/i] Destiny Community, and I want nothing to do with you. If I seem like I'm parroting Byf's video and the points he happens to be making, it's simply because the point deserves to be hammered home. Second, to the Dames of Destiny themselves: For those of you who read this, and I sincerely hope you do, I want to say on behalf of my part of the Destiny Community that I am truly sorry that you had to see, experience, and have to endure that kind of utter bullshit. And I am sorry that over the past decade, it hasn't seemed to have gotten noticeably better. I hope that from this point forward, you have to deal with less and less discriminating assholes while you play online, regardless of whether or not it happens to be Destiny. And I hope that, despite everything that happened during the Bungie Bounty stream, it does not deter you from staying strong as a part of this community. [i]Sincerely, Texas Joker 52, esq.[/i]

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  • TL;DR always tl;dr. What a -blam!-tard white knight.

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  • TL;DR always tl;dr. What a -blam!-tard white knight.

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  • This community is truly disgusting. None of that is ok, against women, or men. It saddens me to think people can be okay with any of this.

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    • So a horse walks into a bar, and a customer asks the bartender why the horse looks so sad all the time? The bartender says “He hasn’t laughed ever sense he lost his wife” The customer responds, “We`ll see about that”. And walks over to the horse, takes him outside and whispers something in his ear. They come back and the horse is laughing like the joker. 2 weeks later the customer returns and there’s a container of money to those who can shut the horse up from laughing. The customer tell the bartender to not worry and takes the horse to the side again. They come back and the horse is quiet again. So the bartender asks the customer, “What did you say to the horse to make him laugh so much that he had to be shut up?” The customer says “To make him laugh I told him that his penis is bigger than mine, and this time I showed him mine”

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    • This is really cool. Props to you for standing up man.

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    • Wait so a streamer told Deej to perform fellatio on his genitals and that is harassment towards women?

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      • http://www.howtoarguewithanidiot.com

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      • I don't have internet right now. Can someone tell me what the video was about. Thanks

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        • There has actually been a study that found guys who troll girl gamers typically suck at pvp. I lol'd http://www.cbc.ca/m/news/trending/men-who-harass-women-are-losers-video-game-study-says-1.3162310

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          • Please stop linking Byf's video. The streamer who jumped on their fireteam said "Deej suck my balls." He posted the video on his channel and it was all to get a shot in at Deej. He did not mention the Dames in what he said. Byf is claiming the guy said "You can suck my -blam!-ing balls Dames." Which he very clearly did not say. While I agree with Byf on the sexist chat issues, he is basically just sensationalizing this guys comments to get more views and putting words in the guys mouth.

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          • This post is worse than what happened.

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          • Edited by RedPhotog: 7/31/2015 12:43:04 AM
            I respect the compassion from this video, but this fight is a tired archaic battle that has been going on since humans have been walking the planet. Aren't there ways to mute people? Ban people? Report people? Surely 'Dames of Destiny' are strong enough to shake off the threats and insults made from a bunch of children, online on the Internet with absolute no identity to anyone whatsoever. It's a ghost war. I understand shady shit happens all the time, but come on...logic up. These are prepubescent idiots exchanging garbage to a bunch of strangers, women mind you, who they haven't even gained the interest to court yet offline in reality. I'm all for peace and justice in everything in life, but this world is becoming way too fragile, and I blame social media. You think this shit is new because Twitch exists?! Come on. Keep on keeping on guardians. Identity is everything. If they don't know you, WTF cares. Carry on. Keep killing darkness, and tune these idiots out. NOBODY IS GOING TO FIND YOU BASED OFF YOUR GAMERTAG AND R.A.P.E. YOU. PERIOD.

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          • Waaaah people talk shit online. Go -blam!- yourself over sensitive feminine "man"

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            • I don't have internet right now. Can someone tell me what the video was about. Thanks

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              • Really what do you expect to happen in an environment where people can say whatever they want with no consequence and complete anonymity

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                • Bow down to the white knight of westeros

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                  • #1. I despise hateful miscreants who say horrible things to people online. #2. I despise people who whine and complain about #1 all day long and are generally one negative comment away from a total mental breakdown. Get over it. The human race is nothing to write home about. Losers are everywhere and aren't going anywhere any time soon. Get enjoyment out of playing the game with people you like, ignore the people you don't like, and find something actually important in life to get outraged about.

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                  • Dear Dames of Destiny: I'm sorry you got harassed over the internet because you don't fit the criteria of some people to participate in some activity. In your best interests, you could stop rejecting people based on something no one is able to choose (sex), in order to not be rejected exactly in the same way by others. [i]Sincerely[/i] abel sin H

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                    • So it seems chivalry is not dead! Hooray!

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                    • I don't think it's right, but guys talk just as much crap to other guys as they do girls.

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                        Morale of the story. Most people suck. Keep your circle of family & friends tight. F the rest (unless they're nice).

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                      • I don't know what happened exactly, but I'd imagine if I knew I'd agree, I hate this kind of thing.

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                      • Also every guy and girl I've seen on Xbox have never disrespected each other. So you can't just go around and judge everyone.

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                      • Is this satire?

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                      • .-. Well it can't always be about girls. What about guys? Whatever happen to "equal rights." Both side bitch about the other gender not being equal and both are always sexist. So shut the -blam!- up about this sexism shit. Boohoo,you're a girl and he's a guy. And I'm a -blam!-ing transformer.

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                      • UNACCEPTABLE!

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