I have 11 years old son who plays Destiny with me. Not so much lately, summer is at our doorsteps, so he's more in the park as he should be. To the point - why would you or your parents let him go to the parties with strangers? I have a bunch of friends that i met while playing Destiny and we had a gathering in my town, and i brought my kid. They are all nice guys and i let him play with any of them anytime he wants ( i am making sure that he doesnt bore them or whatever, he's a good kid, but still a kid ). I have met many great people in this game from my country, and from all over the world, and today, after like 10 months since the game is released, we still play it together whenever we had time. But also, there are all kind of trolls and assholes in this game and i would never let my kid play with randoms. There are all kind of people and i would not let anybody in real life, and even less on the internet to traumatize my kid. So if he can play with somebody that you play with, or someone that is his age, or his friend, fine, let him play. Otherwise, sp or crucible without party chat or different game. That's how i feel. One other thing - as a day one player and Destiny player that did so many times all the things that game has to offer - 1. Even if that guy kicked him from Skolas after they burned burned him, he would get elder cipher or a weapon, it drops instantly, i dont think that Flash would have time to kick him out before he gets that if he gets, its random anyway. 2. No one would be able to join afterward, the game just wouldn't him. Even if you want to join during Skolas fight, you can't. Your team has to wipe and you have a few seconds window to jump in and start the fight from the beggining.