Listen I have 2 younger brothers that grew up on Xbox as I had it&they would play,eventually each getting their own..That being said I always told them to play w/Family+Friends only bc they way people talk,Esp in tense games kids don't need to hear it THAT young. I went off to College n as my roommates n I would play Halo CoD anything I'd make sure they were in my party ect. Destiny lM0 is not for 11Yr0lds bud, from what Ive experienced(Nd I've played w/Great Ppl far more than DBags)I would let him play story,patrol what have u&not let him use a mic for alittle-I kno were not parents&2some it sounds Bat$hit crazy but U should get where I'm coming from,they don't use a mic4random 0nline games,they won't hear the trash....it was a Di¢k move no doubt but think ABT it a little..