You re too thick to see the point of this but I'll try to explain for you, 11 yr olds shouldn't be playing online unsupervised ... especially in a largely adult community ... even more so shouldn't be using lfg sites to join strangers, I'll put this bit in capitals so you understand it's importance IT'S NOT THE VIOLENCE OF THE GAME, IT'S THE COMMUNITY THAT PLAY THE GAME that makes games like destiny unsuitable for kids. Get me?